In many instances, we find ourselves faced with handling the calamity of our past. The web of memories that occupy our consciousness leaves us frozen in times gone by, disabling us, confusing us, and guiding us in directions confounded.
Thoughts echo in our minds that fuel the horrors of our past and give pinions to new fears not yet experienced, even though they wait at the door of thought to be employed.
No one has told you that you are worthy of love. There’s not a whisper nor a hint of love that has begun to fill your heart, your consciousness, so the darkness has found its home. This is the voice you have been accustomed to hearing and obeying, so the highest thought you have entertained is self-hate and self-abuse.
The wheel spins as you are trapped in the confines of what seems to be an endless cycle of mental torment and emotional chaos, but where’s the release button that stops the pattern and sets one free?
There is a way to get off that spinning wheel of torture and begin to embrace the idea that you are a loving being who is worthy of peace and love and who is beginning to consider, if for a moment at a time, that the world needs you.
At first, it might seem very awkward to even contemplate such a thought; in fact, you might resist it so much that it makes you angry to even think you could be loved and that you are a benefit to the world, but if you can drum up the courage to say to yourself, “I am loved,” and then say it again, and then again, several times a day, a hundred times a day, and then in everything you do, you will arrive at a new destination in consciousness.
Though the work is just beginning for you to discover your loving and lovable self, you have begun rightly!
Make-up Or Making Up for Something?
I must admit that I became a girly-girl when I started reading fashion magazines in my early teens. I studied how to apply makeup along with fun ways to paint my nails. I wanted to look like the models in the magazines. Their flawless beauty mesmerized me, and their entire look from head to toe was impeccable. I wanted to emulate them.
In my naivety, I was unaware that what made those models look perfect was lighting, airbrushing, and other special effects, so no matter how much I practiced to imitate their appearances, it was an impossible goal to achieve.
This became an obsession for me that challenged my self-perception, causing a beclouded viewpoint of my femininity, and before long I became extremely dissatisfied with my looks. The need to have a flawless look in the flesh became incessant, and makeup became my mask that I refused to be seen without.
I suppose you could say that makeup for me was like the mask for Erik, the phantom of the opera. His looks were so repulsive that his own mother became aghast looking at him, which impelled him to run away and never be seen without his mask (with the exception when Christine took off his mask, twice).
My mask became heavier as I layered my face with primer, foundation, powder, and that was just the beginning!
Family and friends regularly made comments regarding the amount of makeup I wore, but the thought of going bare-faced was oppressive, so I kept up the disguise.
I was so insecure about my looks that I often went to bed wearing makeup or would rise early enough to put it on before anyone saw me.
I continued to follow the most recent trends in the fashion magazines, which became my creed for womanhood.
This would radically change after I met an energy healer who knew a very good friend of mine. He had seen a picture of me at her house and asked her who I was indicating to her that I needed healing. He asked her if we could meet.
After my friend introduced us, he invited me to a spiritual awareness workshop that he was hosting. I made excuses as to why I could not go, but he just kept looking into my eyes as I babbled on. I soon found myself agreeing to attend.
This man was the very first individual who would lead me to a path of enlightenment.
I arrived at the home of my friend where the meeting was being held with my designer luggage, my fashionable outfit, makeup, and jewelry. My costume was complete!
I was led into a room where people, who were dressed in frocks, were sitting on Indian-style pillows on the floor. The delicate smell of incense filled the room.
I was lovingly greeted by each person with a hug, and the man who had invited me said that he was “very glad” that I was there. He then showed me to my room and asked me to join them when I was ready. I was uncertain as to what he meant when he said to join them when I was “ready,” but I was struck by something in his voice.
I kept telling myself that no way was I going out there to join anyone, yet the sound of this man’s voice kept resonating.
After a couple of hours passed, my friend came in and gently said to me, “Don’t be afraid to come out.” She went on to say that once I found the courage to take off all that was covering true beauty, then I would begin to understand.
She handed me a wash cloth, a towel, and a robe, which all smelled as delightful as the incense, and she left the room.
I began taking off the makeup, and I did not like what I saw. Something inside me kept saying that I had to continue, so I washed my face, removed the garb, and put on the robe.
By the time I went out to participate with the others, dinner was being served, and that too was aromatic. I was welcomed again, just as warmly as the first time.
Each one of us had a plate of food and sat on the pillows, and before eating, someone said a lovely prayer of thanksgiving.
I told my friend that her guests were so loving, and then I asked her how she managed to get everything to smell so fragrant and the food to taste so good. She said that she works with pure and natural ideas that manifest in all she does. That concept set in motion for me a new way of thinking.
Activities during this meeting went on for three days, and with each one that I participated in, I began to feel a sense of freedom that I had not known for a long time. It would be many years later when I would fully implement this approach to life of “pure and natural.”
I had to challenge every spurious thought tempting me to make up for what I seemed to be lacking, especially in comparison to those images rooted in my mind from the fashion magazines.
I researched higher ideas of beauty that would replace the harmful thoughts that had me penned in. I came across one in particular from a book by Kahlil Gibran my mom had given me. He wrote, “Beauty is not in the face; beauty is a light in the heart.” This was a very refreshing idea and one that would orbit my consciousness to redefine my womanhood.
After much dedication in practicing this advanced way of thinking, I was eventually freed from the belief that I had to wear an ensemble in order to qualify me as beautiful. The new womanhood that I was embracing had been based upon improving character, maintaining a sense of poise, and probity. It would no longer be contingent upon external costumes, body shape, or cosmetics.
There is a lot of outside pressure for women to keep up appearances in order to feel attractive; in fact, there is makeup for all occasions: weddings, “selfie-makeup,” and makeup to sleep in, which companies claim is better for your skin!
I am not intimating that makeup (cruelty-free makeup!) is a bad thing—it can be fun and complementary, but if we women feel as though our beauty must be imported and applied, then we may find that our true beauty will remain under the veil we call makeup.
Though I still enjoy being girly and use very little makeup, I have come to the understanding that making up for something I once believed I lacked was just an attack on my real femininity.
Presenting oneself properly is a demonstration of self-regard, but hiding under fashion, trends, and make-up reflects a disregard for the beauty within you.
Below are some citations and passages that have helped me along the way to a more beautiful view of myself.
In the book of Psalms 139:14, it is written, “I will offer You my grateful heart, for I am Your unique creation, filled with wonder and awe. You have approached even the smallest details with excellence; Your works are wonderful; I carry this knowledge deep within my soul.” (The Voice) https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Psalms+139%3A14&version=VOICE
Song of Solomon 4:7: “You are beautiful in every way, my true love. There is no blemish on you.” (GW)
1 Peter 3:3-4: “Do not let your adorning be external—the braiding of hair and the putting on of gold jewelry, or the clothing you wear— but let your adorning be the hidden person of the heart with the imperishable beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which in God's sight is very precious.” (ESV)
1 Samuel 16:7: “But the LORD said to Samuel, ‘Do not look at his appearance or at the height of his stature, because I have rejected him; for God sees not as man sees, for man looks at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart.’” (NASB)
“The recipe for beauty is to have less illusion and more Soul,…” Mary Baker Eddy
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In 1 Corinthians 13:4-13, the apostle Paul provided mankind with a template for Love when he wrote, “Love is patient; love is kind. Love isn’t envious, doesn’t boast, brag, or strut about. There’s no arrogance in love; it’s never rude, crude, or indecent—it’s not self-absorbed. Love isn’t easily upset. Love doesn’t tally wrongs or celebrate injustice; but truth—yes, truth—is love’s delight! Love puts up with anything and everything that comes along; it trusts, hopes, and endures no matter what. Love will never become obsolete” (The Voice).
If we were to make this the template to pattern our behavior after, we just might discover that we have much to work on to copy this divine concept of love.
When I repeatedly bumped into the consequences of my misconducts, I searched the scriptures, as I often do, for answers and after typing the word “love” in the search window, I came across many citations. The one that stood out to me was the apostle Paul’s eloquent description of Love.
After reading it and comparing it to my previous actions, I was ashamed. I knew that I needed to reconstruct the model of love that I held in thought, and the one of which I had been emulating. It was time for me to stop the excuses and self-justification, roll up my sleeves, and take up the work necessary if I wanted my experiences to be more loving and one day reflect the love that Paul described to the Corinthians.
I decided to go through Paul’s description of love, line-by-line, and treat it as a directive. In the very first verse Paul declares that “love is patient,” and he follows with “love is not self-absorbed” and “love is not easily upset.” Contemplating and implementing those concepts seemed impossible to me! I knew I had to do whatever it took to supplant those old ways of acting because they were not harmonious.
At first I was discouraged. My past behaviors were not all in alignment with Paul’s exegesis, and I was going to need help!
I prayed fervently that the Holy Spirit of God intervene on my behalf and transform my dissonant behavior.
However, there was a step I had to take before any of that would unfold.
I needed to admit my errors and make a genuine confession.
Yikes! That was frightening!
The following two citations from the Bible, regarding the benefits of confession, gave me hope and inspired me to move ahead and divulge my infractions.
In 1 John 1:9, it is written, “If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness” (ESV).
In the book of Psalms, Psalm 51:10-12: “Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within me. Cast me not away from your presence, and take not your Holy Spirit from me. Restore to me the joy of your salvation, and uphold me with a willing spirit” (ESV).
Confessing to God (not that I could keep a secret from the All-Knowing!) and openly acknowledging and taking accountability for my choices and actions was an imperative step to freeing my conscience, and this acceptance of accountability set a course for a new and more flourishing way to live.
In the book of Proverbs 28:13, it is written, “Whoever conceals his transgressions will not prosper, but he who confesses and forsakes them will obtain mercy” (ESV). And mercy is what I needed!
In Scientific American, psychologist James W. Pennebaker wrote, “Any type of open and truthful disclosure reduces stress and helps individuals come to terms with their behavior. It is not coincidental that some of the most powerful people or institutions in many cultures encourage people to confess their transgressions. And there is very strong evidence that writing about upsetting experiences or dark secrets can benefit your mental and physical well-being.”1
Confessing sins may be compared to cleansing, which is very refreshing! And by relinquishing sins to God, there is liberation. A freedom from sin!
In the book of Isiah, in the old testament, he wrote in chapter 1:18, “"Come now, let's settle this," says the LORD. "” “Come now, let us settle the matter, says the Lord. “Though your sins are like scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they are red as crimson, they shall be like wool.” 2
Carrying transgressions around with you can be burdensome and may lead you to feel the need to cover them up for fear of embarrassment or bury them deep within, pretending they did not happen. None of those choices will set you free from the mental prison of veniality.
In Genesis 3, the story of original sin of Adam and Eve, it is written that after the sin was committed Adam and Eve’s next move was to cover up the transgression in hopes of hiding it from God. However, God asked Adam, “Where art thou?” not because God couldn’t find where Adam was physically but rather to prompt Adam to consider where he was in consciousness. Adam needed to respond to God’s question and check his own thinking with his choices of behavior. He realized that it was futile for him and Eve to continue to dodge God because God is omniscient. And like Adam and Eve, I would soon bump into the same realization.
St. Augustine said of confessing sins, “In failing to confess, Lord, I would only hide You from myself, not myself from You.”
It is not an easy undertaking to admit your faults or to go before the throne of grace and plead the Almighty, but it is pertinent if we are to ever reflect, feel, and understand the potency of Love and its attributes.
For each one of us to attempt to mirror the love that Paul speaks of in 1 Corinthians, we must begin with a clean conscience, then ask God to flood it with His love until it runs over for others to witness and experience.
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1 Pennebaker, James. “Does Confessing Secrets Improve Our Mental Health?” Scientific American, Nature America, Inc., www.scientificamerican.com/article/does-confessing-secrets-improve-our-mental-health/.
2 NIV-New International Version, Holy Bible, New International Version®, NIV® Copyright ©1973, 1978, 1984, 2011 by Biblica, Inc.® Used by permission. All rights reserved worldwide
On March 24th, 2018, students and fellow supporters across the country protested to bring awareness to the need for gun control in the United States. They called it March for Our Lives. A very accurate title! That event followed the National School Walkout that occurred the week before and was brought on by the shooting at Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School in Parkland, Florida, leaving 17 people killed.
Unfortunately, that execrable event was not the first of its kind. Last year alone, in the U.S., 65 shootings occurred at schools and universities. And “since 2013, there have been 291 school shootings.”1 The statistics are alarming! And I don’t think anyone would disagree that a solution is most urgent.
The debates on gun control are not a new issue in this country, but the issue has now been ignited by students from all over demanding that action be taken to pass laws for stricter gun control.
As I have been following these events with deep compassion in my heart for those families who lost loved ones as well as empathy for the students, I felt the need to do more than just sign the petitions in favor of banning assault weapons. I needed to earnestly pray! And as I often do, when seeking answers and comfort to life’s heartbreaking provocations, I turned to the Bible for insight and wisdom.
In one of my favorite books in the Old Testament, I read in Proverbs (a plethora of wisdom!) 10:12, “Hatred fuels dissension, but love calms all rebellions.”
I continued to repeat that in hopes that it would fill the air like the fragrance of honeysuckle, travel to the hearts of all people, dismantle hate, and build up love. At that moment, as my eyes were filled with tears, a question arose: Gun control or hate control?
I have heard the aphorism, “Guns don’t kill people; people kill people.” Maybe we need to alter that to “hate kills.” Because we know love does not kill.
Hate and guns of any kind make for a deadly mix!
As I pondered that and stayed informed about the March for Our Lives event, I came across an article on kids, hunters, and those who compete in skeet, etc., who trust that when guns are handled with respect and discipline, the gun is not the problem.
I know how desperate we are for an expeditious solution to these school shootings, and I cannot help but think that banning the sale of automatic weapons to consumers will make schools and communities over all safer, but those are not the only guns that kill nor are the triggers of those weapons being pulled by loving, mentally healthy persons. In fact, a criminology professor stated that in school shootings, the shooter’s motive is fame.2
That is a very dark and morose concept of fame! Regrettably, it may be a very accurate assessment.
In 1 John 2:11, it is written, “But whoever hates his brother is in darkness. He lives in darkness and does not know where he is going. The darkness has made him blind.”
This blindness that John wrote about refers to a mental blindness or dark thoughts which obscure the messages of divine Love, leaving the person mesmerized by pride, malevolence, and enmity, followed by deplorable manifestations!
In “Disarming Animal Magnetism” from The Anthology of Classic Articles, Helen Wood Bauman wrote, “If people would recognize the first whisperings of the serpent to be not their own thoughts but the destructive influences of an unreal mind, if they would stop listening to and obeying these whisperings, animal propensities would be quickly stamped out of thought and would not be permitted to grow to intensely hypnotic, dragonlike proportions.”3
Martin Luther King, Jr. said, “Darkness cannot drive out darkness: only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate: only love can do that.”
So how does Love drive out hate?
Love, according to scriptural text, is God. In 1 John 4:7-8, it is written, “Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God, and whoever loves has been born of God and knows God. Anyone who does not love does not know God, because God is love.”
Hate then is the antithesis of Love, or God. Hate is the myopia to the existence of the omnipotent and benevolent God who is Love. Even if one does not choose to believe in the power of God, I would hope one believes in the power of love.
So, as these debates continue and passion on both sides of gun control increase, as we contemplate our position on this issue, there are additional fights we can take up and more work we can do to be efficacious in this battle.
There is much work to be done, and it may seem as though the work is overwhelming, and maybe even impossible, but with God all things are possible.
In the gospel of Luke 10:1-3, Jesus said, “After this the Lord appointed seventy-two others and sent them two-by-two ahead of him to every town and place where he was about to go. He told them, ‘The harvest is plentiful, but the workers are few. Ask the Lord of the harvest, therefore, to send out workers into his harvest field. Go! I am sending you out like lambs among wolves.’”
I trust that what Jesus was telling us is not solely for missionaries and proselytizers, but for those who dare to stand up for what is right, fair and good; to spread peace and as much as the kingdom of Love as possible. And with so many people on board arguing on the side of righteousness and change for the betterment of all, it appears it will be a harder task for those who oppose the workers of good than those arguing for it to win!
I commend the students who have demonstrated shalom and peace and rallied in protest of evil. And I think the Lord must be pleased with them as they, like many other stouthearted brothers and sisters before them, fight the good fight and demand that the manmade laws for human rights align with something greater; our divine rights to live in harmony. So, as the campaign for gun control advances, let us also advance the campaign for hate control.
L.O.V.E. Love Omits Violence Everywhere®
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1 Cuddy, Alice. “America's History of School Shootings.” Euronews. March 26, 2018. Accessed March 27, 2018. http://www.euronews.com/2018/02/15/america-s-history-of-school-shootings.
2 “The Gun Owners of the Parkland Generation | The New Yorker.” Flipboard on Flipboard. Accessed March 27, 2018. https://flipboard.com/@flipboard/-the-gun-owners-of-the-parkland-generati/f-f323f33f24/newyorker.com.
3 Cuddy. Ibid.
Sin is sin
Growing up, when my mom caught me in a lie and asked me to explain myself, I told her that I lied to avoid hurting someone’s feelings. She told me not to make a habit of lying, that it is “okay” to tell a “white lie,” from time to time just not a “black lie.” She explained that a “white lie” signified a small sin that was more of a falsehood (Okay! That’s what a lie is!) but that a “black lie,” is an evil that would stain my soul.
It was terrifying!
I went to my room and began calculating how many “white vs black lies” I had told and I was deeply troubled (there’s a confession!)
It seemed confounding that one who claimed to be a Christ-follower (bless you, mom!) would justify any kind of lying as though a white lie was authorized by God.
Over the years of gaining more spiritual insight, I came to realize that a lie is a lie is a lie, or a sin is sin, great or small, but let’s identify what a sin is. To sin means; “missing the mark.” http://biblehub.com/greek/266.htm
I understand that to suggest, we miss the point about God, that we often fail in the human condition, falling well below the standard Godliness. St. Augustine defines it as, "Sin is nothing else than to neglect eternal things, and seek after temporal things.” St. Augustine
The lie derived from none other than the liar. To quote Jesus in John 8:44, he said, “You belong to your father, the devil, and you want to carry out your father's desires. He was a murderer from the beginning, not holding to the truth, for there is no truth in him. When he lies, he speaks his native language, for he is a liar and the father of lies.” NIV
Siding with the liar even just a little, suggests that we have turned away from incorruptibility and that one slight turn could lead us so far off the path of righteousness that we become susceptible to all kinds of danger. One small sin, one white lie is no small thing!
I think of a small sin or a white lie in this way;
The poison dart frog, which is no bigger than a thumb nail, is bright and fauve, and has enough poison to kill 10 humans!
And then there is the mosquito. Yes, a tiny mosquito. Mosquitos are responsible for 2 million deaths a year, causing Malaria, yellow and dengue fever.
There is the blue-ringed octopus found in the waters of Australia, New Guinea, Indonesia and the Philippines. It is “half the size of a golf ball,” but its sting can cause cardiac arrest. http://all-that-is-interesting.com/the-worlds-six-smallest-and-deadliest-animals
Those are just some of the smallest but deadliest creatures, which symbolize that small doesn’t mean harmless.
There are many more examples of how one small sin can cause havoc, accidents and even death.
I received a call from a woman who was deeply disturbed abut her daughter’s pattern of lying and needed a resolve. She repeatedly told to her daughter to close their front door, so their dog would not get out. This was a constant ordeal, especially because they lived on a busy street. One morning before school as the daughter was getting her rain boots from the porch, she left the front door open, but when her mom asked her if she had remembered to close it, she said she had. The daughter then snuck over to actually close the door, but it was too late. Their dog had gotten out and was hit by a car.
Small lies, white lies, little sins all add up to an offhanded mentality,” and this attitude left rationalized and unchanged leads to a life of telling more lies resulting in missing the mark in greater ways.
In the book of Revelation in chapter 12, a woman is faced with the “great red dragon” who is trying to “devour” her child and kill her. I envision that this dragon was once the serpent in Gen. II, who beguiled Eve and I cannot help but wonder what would have happened if she had just heeled in its head as it was tempting her thereby obliterating the enticer and preventing it from ever having had the chance of growing into that predominant threat.
Let us learn from this allegory that it is wise to stomp out the temptation to lie and instead, take up the practice of telling the truth and even though telling a lie seems to be the best option to save face, in the long run, it will prove to be a most detrimental decision. “Anything is better than lies and deceit!” ― Leo Tolstoy, Anna Karenina.
I came across this verse in Prov. 27:6, “Wounds from a sincere friend are better than many kisses from an enemy,” that inspired me to work on being very courageous to break the habit of lying in order to protect someone else’s feelings, because in reality, by being dishonest, I was damaging my own integrity. I was not considering the aftereffects nor did I realize that I was allowing diffidence to control me. I had become enslaved to the habit and justified it by absurd self-righteous reasoning.
Honesty is salutary and it does require prudence when vocalizing it for the results to be most efficacious. So the sooner you practice it the better you will become at it.
Fasting from Chocolate!
Lent season reminds me of when I was a child being raised in both Catholicism and Eastern Orthodox Christianity.
My mom would take me and my sisters to church to receive our ashes on Ash Wednesday and that meant we had better have decided what we were going to give up for forty days in celebration of Lent.
One year, I chose to give up chocolate of any kind (I loved milk chocolate!). This decision was not easy, but my mom was convinced that fasting from something we loved was a way of making a sacrifice. She explained that if God could sacrifice His only son for the forgiveness of our sins, then surely I could give up chocolate for forty days. So, for those forty days, chocolate was forbidden to pass my lips. Easter Sunday took forever to arrive so I could receive my reward, a very big solid chocolate bunny! When I got my hands on that bunny, I enjoyed every single bite. It was delicious!
As I grew up, I realized the greater meaning and value of sacrifice and Lent. It was not just about giving up food but rather letting go of what did not promote my spiritual progress and stunted my mind from elevating.
Those spiritual hindrances ranged from a variety of things such as victimization, anger, resentment, and unrighteous judgment on my fellow man.
I knew that somewhere along my way, I allowed the influence of erroneous beliefs and ideals to creep into my mind and usurp the natural thoughts of God. I never considered not only how He saw me, but also how He thinks, overall, about His creation.
I ended up on a confused and confounded path that led me away from what once mattered to me the most: love, compassion, charity, forgiveness and such like. However, when I decided to turn my life completely over to the care of God and God alone, I had a strong desire and a need to let go of inferior and imperfect thoughts.
As I prayed that the Holy Spirit divest me of anything unlike the character of God, I wished it had just been chocolate that I was once again faced with giving up. Relinquishing unpleasant traits was no easy task. I found myself returning to the same old habits that I needed to forgo. I knew that I could not achieve such a prize without God’s intervention. I needed to cling to God even more for endurance, patience, and comfort. And God showed up! He fully armed and equipped me with everything I needed to forge ahead through Christ and destroy those unloving attributes.
Some of those unlovely thoughts fell away more easily than others. For the ones that try to claim my identity, I still fight the battle within to give up whatever is not of God.
In the book of Ephesians 4:22-24, the apostle Paul wrote, “To put off your old self, which belongs to your former manner of life and is corrupt through deceitful desires, and to be renewed in the spirit of your minds, and to put on the new self, created after the likeness of God in true righteousness and holiness” (ESV).
This kind of Lent, the Lent I trust my mom was truly teaching us, lasts much longer than forty days. It is lifelong work and in the end has a greater reward waiting for us than a chocolate Easter bunny!
The reward is salvation won!
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As I was placing my items on the conveyor belt at the grocery store, I saw to my left magazines lined up in rows on a rack. One of them had a photo of an actress on the front page with the headliner that expressed that she was “wild” about her new boyfriend.
Another magazine had a photo of a judge who apparently had divorced her husband and asking the question whether the reader would like to know why she got a divorce. Silently, I said, “I don’t want to know. But I hope all persons involved are happy.”
There were many more magazines like that, and similarly, they were all advertising the same concept: celebrity gossip.
As the cashier was ringing up my items, I thought about how gossip is unkind, intrusive, and mostly, if not always, invalid. So, then I got to thinking about why people want to read about celebrity business or any personal business for that matter? Is it curiosity? Entertainment? Infatuation with a certain celebrity? Is it the need to fantasize and live vicariously through another? Or maybe it’s schadenfreude, pleasure derived by someone from another person’s misfortune. Whatever the reason, this huge money-making industry on celebrity gossip does not seem to be fading out. In fact, gossip seems to be attractive and a fruitful habit!
A gossip is one who discloses personal or sensitive information about others in a chatty, careless way. The magazines certainly have that chatty, careless tone.
I recalled a time when I was in a waiting room in a medical building. The coffee table and the end tables were covered with gossip magazines. In addition to that, the TV tuned to a daytime talk show, and the hostesses were talking celebrity gossip. I felt there was no escaping the buzz! I then decided to meditate on something good and useful. That got me through the next ten minutes with ease!
Before leaving, I felt compelled to ask the person at the front desk why there were no periodicals about health and well-being in the waiting room. She responded, “People like to read that stuff, so we just keep putting out.”
I said goodbye, but I pondered how many more important issues there are in life to fill our minds with and contemplate, and how many more viable subjects to speak about that would be like healing agents to the world.
In the book of James 1:2-9, it is written, “If a person never speaks hurtful words or shouts in anger or profanity, then he has achieved perfection. The one who can control his tongue can also control the rest of his body. 3 It’s like when we place a metal bit into a horse’s mouth to ride it; we can control its entire body with the slightest movement of our hands. 4 Have you ever seen a massive ship sailing effortlessly across the water? Despite its immense size and the fact that it is propelled by mighty winds, a small rudder directs the ship in any direction the pilot chooses. 5 It’s just the same with our tongues! It’s a small muscle, capable of marvelous undertakings.
And do you know how many forest fires begin with a single ember from a small campfire? 6 The tongue is a blazing fire seeking to ignite an entire world of vices. The tongue is unique among all parts of the body because it is capable of corrupting the whole body. If that were not enough, it ignites and consumes the course of creation with a fuel that originates in hell itself. 7 Humanity is capable of taming every bird and beast in existence, even reptiles and sea creatures great and small. 8 But no man has ever demonstrated the ability to tame his own tongue! It is a spring of restless evil, brimming with toxic poisons. 9 Ironically this same tongue can be both an instrument of blessing to our Lord and Father and a weapon that hurls curses upon others who are created in God’s own image.” (https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=James+3%3A1-12&version=VOICE )
Filling our minds with unproductive thoughts may not only hinder our spiritual progress but it may also thwart overall mental development.
In “What You Read Matters More Than You Think” in Psychology Today, writer Susan Reynolds explains, based upon a study published in the International Journal of Business Administration in May 2016, that there is “deep reading” and a “light reading.”1
Essentially, deep reading involves a more concentrated reading and comprehension and “occurs when the language is rich in detail…taps into the same brain regions that would activate if the reader were experiencing the event…a great exercise for the brain and has been shown to increase empathy, as the reader dives deeper and adds reflection, analysis, and personal subtext to what is being read.”2 As opposed to light reading that does not require much focus, attentiveness or a reason to retain. Reynolds further comments that light reading, such as “entertainment news…,” “lacks a genuine voice.”3
According to one article, after a study, Microsoft Corp. declared that “since the year 2000, the average attention span has dropped 12 seconds to eight seconds.”4 However, this fact, and the source of this fact, has been challenged. According to Simon Maybin, author of the BBC News article “Busting the Attention Span Myth,” the source is not Microsoft, but a company called Statistic Brain, which could not be reached. Maybin, having interviewed “various people who dedicate their working lives to studying human attention” found that even the experts are not certain “where those numbers come from either.”5 Sounds like more myth-information that turned into gossip!
“Deep thinking” or intelligent thinking does not have to be lengthy, but it does need to consist of something useful, uplifting, and propitious. It needs to educate, inform, and inspire. Surely, there are more subjects that could use our attention, such as love, benevolence, kindness, awareness, confidence, healing, and overall mental fitness.
Martin Luther King, Jr., said, “The function of education is to teach one to think intensively and to think critically. Intelligence plus character—that is the goal of true education.”
“To think intensely” is no light concept! And maybe that’s why gossip of any kind, celebrity or otherwise, is more appealing!
I understand the concept, “To each their own,” and I understand gossip may be lucrative for journalists. However, there are many wonderful topics to write about, topics filled with new ideas and new thoughts. In fact, there are unlimited possibilities waiting to be discovered. To entertain those new opportunities, one must be willing to search for the deeper things and put the mind to work! To break down barriers that confine thought to mediocracy.
Marie Curie said, “Be less curious about people and more curious about ideas.” That’s a refreshing idea!
Psalm 119:37 reads “Turn away mine eyes from beholding vanity; and quicken thou me in thy way.” (KJV)
God’s way of thinking is significantly different than gossip! And the prophet Isaiah spells that out clearly when he said, “For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, saith the Lord. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts” (KJV).
So, is it possible for man to think like God?
Yes! However, that requires man to focus on God and get to know God along with how the Almighty thinks.
In Colossians 3:2, the apostle Paul wrote, “Set your minds on things that are above, not on things that are on earth” (ESV). He wanted us to know that it is very easy to get pulled down by earthly ideas, desires, and aspirations rather than looking up, mentally up, to God for all things. After all, it’s not like man became tempted and earthly driven only in the 20th century. The world has been tempting mankind to yearn for the worldly things as far back as Adam and Eve.
Fame, fortune, self-glorification, and self-satisfaction are the ongoing tempters that draw us away from God and leave us smack in the middle of personal desire.
However, with this enticing and mesmeric pull of celebrity and material appeal, how can one stay his or her mind on God?
In the book of Philippians 4:8, it is written, “Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things” (ESV).
Ask yourself whether gossip fits any of those qualities mentioned above.
Is gossip true?
Is gossip honorable?
Is gossip just?
Is gossip pure?
Is gossip lovely?
Is gossip commendable?
Is gossip excellent?
Is gossip worthy of praise?
Henry Thomas Buckle said, “Great minds discuss ideas. Average minds discuss events. Small minds discuss people.”
1 Reynold, Susan. “What You Read Matters More Than You Might Think.” Psychology Today. June 07, 2016. Accessed October 20, 2017. https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/prime-your-gray-cells/201606/what-you-read-matters-more-you-might-think.
4 McSpadden, Kevin . “Science: You Now Have a Shorter Attention Span Than a Goldfish.” Time. May 14, 2015. Accessed October 20, 2017. http://time.com/3858309/attention-spans-goldfish/.
5 Maybin, Simon. “Busting the attention span myth.” BBC News. March 10, 2017. Accessed October 20, 2017. http://www.bbc.com/news/health-38896790.
In my biblical studies of what numbers and symbols mean, I learned that the number 7, which is used hundreds of times in the Bible, signifies completeness.
We find the first example of the number 7 indicating completeness in Genesis 2:1-3 when we are informed that God finished creation. “Thus the heavens and the earth were finished, and all the host of them. 2 And on the seventh day God ended his work which he had made; and he rested on the seventh day from all his work which he had made. 3 And God blessed the seventh day, and sanctified it: because that in it he had rested from all his work which God created and made.”1 (KJV)
It is true that of those 7 days, 6 of them were used for creating the “heavens and the earth,” but what I found interesting was that God did not declare He was finished until the 7th day, and that day included rest. Only then did He say that all that He made was complete as well as “very good.”
That indicates the idea of rest being directly linked to completion. For example, the expression, “I rest my case,” is a term used in a courtroom when an attorney has completed his or her case.2 If the attorney is not confident that the case has been completed, then that phrase, “I rest my case,” is not verbalized.
Another example of the number 7 representing completeness is in Exodus 22:30, where the Israelites were instructed that any animal used for a sacrifice must be at least 7 days old.3
In 2 Kings 5:10, it is written that for Naaman (captain of the army of the King of Aram or general of the Syrian Army, second in command to the King) to be cleansed of leprosy, he must wash in the Jordan river seven times.4 And in Joshua 6:15 it is written that Joshua along with his 7 priests must march around Jericho 7 times before the walls of Jericho would fall.5
These examples are not the only ones intimating that the number 7 represents plenum.
Other examples can be found in Leviticus 4:6, 25:8, 26:18; Psalms 119:164; and Revelation 1:20, 13:1, 17:10.
In my further research of numbers and their biblical implications, I learned that the number 6 not only symbolizes mankind but that also the number 666 symbolizes “the beast,” according to the book of Revelation 13:18.6
So I had to ask myself if man and beast were one and the same.
I was very familiar with Gen.1:27, that man was made in God’s image and after His likeness which implies that man, in character and in nature, spiritually, is like God!
There seems to be a contradiction between Genesis 1 and Revelation.
Did God create two different types of man? One like God and another like a beast? Or are we to believe in multiple creators?
Definitely not! For that would lead us to entertain polytheistic reconstructionism.
However, if one is to trust that God is the only cause and Creator of all things, then he or she would also have to include the declaration from God that all that He made was in fact “very good.” It seems contradictory that He could make a good man as well as a beastly man!
In the book of James, it is written, “Doth a fountain send forth at the same place sweet water and bitter?” This question is set forth to remind man that God, symbolized by a fountain in this verse, could not create both a good and a not-good anything.
Is it possible and even likely that we are to both apprehend and accept that the universal man, signified by the number 6 man, denotes incompleteness only if man has not yet accepted the three beings, the Father, the son and the Holy Spirit? And once one has made space in his or her mind and heart for the trinity as the Godhead, we begin experiencing our true and complete nature as God’s nature and awaken to the Christly character within.
To welcome this idea, one has to have a deeper understanding of the trinity.
To begin with, the title of God as Father appears 180 times, 15 times in the Old Testament and 165 times in the New Testament.7 Those verses support the idea that if one accepts God, according to scriptural text, then one would have to accept Him as our Father.
An example of that can be found in the gospel of Matthew 23:9: “And call no man your father upon the earth: for one is your Father, which is in heaven” (KJV).
Regarding the idea that the son is inseparable from the Father, that is supported in the gospel of John 10:30 where it is written, “I and my Father are one” (KJV).
Jesus did not say, “I am God,” but He clearly stated that He and God are inseparable.
So where does the Holy Spirit enter the picture to make this trinity complete?
In the gospel of John 4:24, it is written, “God is a Spirit: and they that worship him must worship him in spirit and in truth” (ESV). Right there is a directive that our adulation for God automatically includes His Spirit and His son, Jesus.
To further support this, in Charles Spurgeon’s sermon, The Personality of the Holy Spirit on January 21, 6 1855, Spurgeon emphasizes the union of Father, son, and Holy Spirit when he said that when a person is baptized, it is announced; “I baptize you in the name,”—note, I said, “in the name,” not names — “of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit.”
He continued by adding, “Let me remind you that the same thing occurs each time you are dismissed from this service. In pronouncing the solemn closing benediction of 2 Corinthians 13:14, we invoke on your behalf, ‘May the grace of the Lord Jesus Christ, and the love of God, and the fellowship of the Holy Spirit be with you all….’”8
In the textbook Science and Health with Key to the Scriptures, theologian and author Mary Baker Eddy wrote of this trinity on page 331 in the chapter Science of Being, “VII. Life, Truth, and Love constitute the triune Person called God,—that is, the triply divine Principle, Love. Divine trinity. They represent a trinity in unity, three in one,—the same in essence, though multi‐form in office….”
I appreciate, deeply, how she makes a comparison to God, Jesus, and Spirit as Life, Truth, and Love because according to biblical text, they are synonymous with each other.
In the book of Revelation 2:11, it is written, “He who has an ear, let him hear what the Spirit says to the churches. The one who conquers will not be hurt by the second death” (ESV). That verse indicates that Spirit is life eternal. Also, Jesus said in John 14:6 that he is “the truth.” And in 1 John 4:8, Jesus said, “…God is love” (KJV).
Jonathan Edwards, who was an American revivalist preacher, philosopher, and Congregationalist Protestant theologian in referring to God, said, “He has made all things that are excellent, and therefore He must have given them their excellency, and so must have all that excellency in Himself, or else could not have given it. He must have all the glories, perfections, and beauties of the whole creation in Himself in an infinite degree, for they all proceed from Him, as beams do from the sun, and He is as much more excellent than they all, as the whole sun is than one single ray.”
It has been said that when one finds that special person in life, that he or she then feels that person has completed him or her. And though that is a lovely sentiment, I’d rather trust that God has already completed us, making us like a 7, a universal 6 plus one, the trinity. Because as some of us already have discovered, if that special person leaves, for whatever reason, we are left with a feeling of incompleteness, a feeling of the universal 6 without the trinity.
I trust and must believe that God did, in truth, cause man to be like Him, complete and excellent, but when Adam fell asleep, in his dream, his wife Eve, became entranced by the serpent who coerced her into ingesting the fruit from the tree of both good and evil. After that she fed the lie to Adam, and before long, they were awake to transgression, trespasses, and lapses in judgment. The result was that they both fell asleep to their metaphysical identity, and to some degree, whether large or small, man continues to be somnambulant.
I fear that as long as man lingers in a trance, then he will remain ungraceful and is more apt to act like the beast, like a 6, than like Christ. But if man strives to wake from that stupor, leaving the Adam and Eve characteristics, the incomplete man, in the dust (pun intended!) then as the Psalmist wrote in Ps. 17:14-15, “As for me, I shall see Your face in righteousness; I will be [fully] satisfied when I awake [to find myself] seeing Your likeness.” Only then will man become 7, the universal 6 plus one, the trinity. (AMPC)
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AMPC-Amplified Bible, Classic Edition
1 “BibleGateway.” Genesis 1 KJV—Bible Gateway. Accessed July 16, 2017. https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Genesis%2B1&version=KJV
2 “Definition of “I rest my case”-English Dictionary.” I rest my case Definition in the Cambridge English Dictionary. Accessed July 16, 2017. http://dictionary.cambridge.org/us/dictionary/english/i-rest-my-case
3 “BibleGateway.” Exodus 22:30 KJV—Bible Gateway. Accessed July 16, 2017. https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Exodus%2B22%3A30&version=KJV
4 “BibleGateway.” 2 Kings 5:10 KJV—Bible Gateway. Accessed July 16, 2017. https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=2%2BKings%2B5%3A10%2B&version=KJV
5 “BibleGateway.” Joshua 6:15 KJV—Bible Gateway. Accessed July 16, 2017. https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Joshua%2B6%3A15&version=KJV
6 “BibleGateway.” Revelation 13:18 KJV—Bible Gateway. Accessed July 16, 2017. https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Revelation%2B13%3A18&version=KJV
7 “Fatherhood of God-Baker’s Evangelical Dictionary of Biblical Theology Online.” Bible Study Tools. Accessed July 16, 2017. http://www.biblestudytools.com/dictionaries/bakers-evangelical-dictionary/fatherhood-of-god.html
8 The Personality of the Holy Spirit — C. H. Spurgeon. Accessed July 16, 2017. http://www.biblebb.com/files/spurgeon/0004.htm
The cliché “Two heads are better than one” intimates that it is better to get advice or opinions from another person when one is uncertain about something. Often, after a horrific incident has occurred, the news will interview “experts” or a panel of “experts” in hopes of getting some explanation as to why the heinous crime happened in the first place.
Those experts may give statistics or have background information on the victimizer and then, through deductive reasoning, psychological evaluations, and theorems, come up with a variety of reasons as to why the egregious act happened. Even with an educated and astute “expert panel” do their best to fill in the blanks, the human mind still wants to understand how someone could commit such a crime. And as important and useful as they may be, we often want something more, something higher than those evaluations and explanations to bring us the peace we so desire. I know that I do and when I do, I turn my questions to God, seeking His thoughts and His wisdom.
During my years of being mentored, prior to opening up my practice of mental health mentoring through the knowledge of God and scriptural text, my mentor shared with me, after I had asked her what she thought about a particular challenge I was having, that it didn’t matter what she was thinking, and that she was not in the practice or habit of sharing opinions. She added that she doesn’t carry opinions on anything, just the knowledge of what she has learned of God.
She further elucidated by giving me an example that remains with me as an invaluable concept regarding this subject. She taught me that the word “pinion” meant “the outer part of a bird’s wings” and that the letter “o” before the word “pinion,” as a play on words, could also be looked at as a zero. She concluded that opinions have zero wings to take flight. In other words, opinions have no credibility. (Similarly, I know an English professor who borrows Terry Cole-Whittaker’s book title and tells her students, “What you think of me is none of my business,” although she adds, “What you learn from me is.”)
My mentor then went on to say that leading someone to higher thinking is the best counsel to offer rather than telling someone what to do whereby robbing him or her of an opportunity to strive for the answers through praying and pondering. She also forewarned me that when someone offers a human opinion or mere conjecture, he or she could easily influence someone in a direction that God had not intended that person to go. This became a standard rule which I implement in my own practice, to recall that opinions are pace! As I usually do in all areas of my life, I decided to look up citations in scriptural text to support and reinforce my mentor’s wise counsel.
I discovered in Proverbs 18:2 that expressing opinions could make one look foolish for it is written, “A fool takes no pleasure in understanding, but only in expressing his opinion” (ESV). In Isaiah 2:22, the prophet said, “Stop regarding man in whose nostrils is breath, for of what account is he?” (ESV) Namely, we put the credibility in man’s counsel.
That wise comment from Isaiah prompted me to think about how many billions of dollars are made annually in self-help concepts. When someone becomes famous, beats the odds, or has reached a high level of success, people want to know how that person did it and what the formula is. Some authors have devised a step-by-step method claiming that, if those steps are taken, then success will follow.
I am not suggesting that those kinds of stories be withheld—they can be motivating, useful, and even inspiring—but I am suggesting that each of us has our own individual path, and even if we were to try to follow another person’s path exactly, many variables would alter the journey and eventually the results. As Athos tells D’Artagnan in Alexandre Dumas’ The Three Musketeers, “In general, people only ask for advice that they may not follow it; or, if they should follow it, that they may have somebody to blame for having given it.”1 We must each find our own path in our own way.
Someone once asked me why he had not yet manifested the success he had been fervently praying about for years. He explained that a man who had never played the lottery before won millions when he played it the first time. I didn’t suggest that he go look for a self-help book on How to Win a Lottery For first Timers and follow it step-by-step! Rather, I reminded him that it would be more efficacious to focus on his work and not become distracted with what others are or are not doing, to remain in steadfast prayer, trusting God would bestow His wisdom and insight as to the direction of his purpose.
He then asked me how he could discern between his thoughts and God’s. So, I referred him to Isaiah 55:8, “‘For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways,’ declares the Lord. ‘As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts’” (NIV).
Traveling the same thought pattern day in and day out can not only quickly become mundane, but it can also lead us to feeling unsatisfied, longing for something greater than we were told we could ever achieve. However, traveling on the highway of thinking, listening to God-Mindedness, the Head above all others, will elevate thought and open up new opportunities. It is more than possible, it is likely, by God’s wisdom to experience and manifest greatness.
In 1 Chronicles 29:11, it is written, “Yours, LORD, is the greatness and the power and the glory and the majesty and the splendor, for everything in heaven and earth is yours. Yours, LORD, is the kingdom; you are exalted as head over all” (NIV). “As head over all”— if one does in fact accept that and believe it, one will experience the wisdom and knowledge of God with great understanding!
In the gospel of John 8:47, it is written, “Whoever is of God hears the words of God. The reason why you do not hear them is that you are not of God” (ESV). Hearing God means that one must be familiar with Him, His ways, and His voice. Becoming familiar with someone requires spending time with that person to get to know him or her. It is the same with God.
Simply put, to hear God means to know God, and to know God means you will hear God.
I heard this profound Bible teacher once say that most people do so much talking to God that they are “down-right rude,” that we need to listen more to God if we are to get to know Him.
After having listened to (no pun intended) the professor’s sagacity, I decided to try it. I practiced remaining still and just listening. It took a while to settle in and remain poised and serene in prayer, but once I did, the inner voice of reason, insight, wisdom, and acumen became clearer and clearer. The more I prayed with humbleness and receptivity, the more I was led to what turned out to be healthy and uplifting decisions and experiences.
I have always been a fan of reading a psalm a day, and Psalm 139 is primarily dedicated to God’s omniscience or All-knowing. The idea of God knowing all our thoughts, not barring where we are each moment and never separating Himself from us, makes it clear why the author of Chronicles said that God is the “exalted head above all.”
Asking God, who knows it all, is far better than asking someone who is a know-it-all but in fact knows very little. Joseph Joubert, an essayist wrote, “Those who never retract their opinions love themselves more than they love truth.”2
By asking God, even if you must wait for the answer, the result will be the truth, without human infiltration. However, asking God directly may for some at first seem odd, yet if the Bible clearly instructs us and encourages us to ask God for wisdom then surely it must be a most useful idea.
In James 1:5, James said, “If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God…” and James continues in 3:17 with, “But the wisdom from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, open to reason, full of mercy and good fruits, impartial and sincere.”
Is it possible that because we cannot see God that it is easier to lean on a person for counsel, direction, and understanding? Is it possible that we have forsaken the Creator and in place of Him we have set-up man, God’s creation, to be relied upon?
Maybe if we could see God, meet him for lunch, and converse with Him, or even email Him questions, we may be inclined to turn more to Him for answers than to family, friends, and others. I am in no way proposing that we do not receive useful information and most needed support from others, but I am submitting that there is no wisdom wiser than God’s! And He wants to share His wisdom with those who seek Him as an answer to their needs!
In Proverbs 21:30 the words of God are, “No wisdom, no understanding, and no advice [can stand up] against the LORD.”
It stands to perfect reason why when one is seeking answers, asking for God’s wisdom is the way to go! His wisdom is unadulterated, absolute, impartial, unbiased, and nondiscriminatory. As Albert Einstein said, “Few people are capable of expressing with equanimity opinions which differ from the prejudices of their social environment. Most people are incapable of forming such opinions.”
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1 Dumas, Alexandre. The Three Musketeers. Bantam Books: Toronto, 1984. 300.
What does a ring of truth sound like? This phrase derived from the idea that a bell that rings true is a bell that rings at a correct note. A note is a pitch of sound. If that sound does not vibrate correctly, it is called “off pitch” or “off key,” meaning the note is either flat or sharp and therefore must be adjusted.
I used to play an acoustic guitar, and before I played any song I had to tune my guitar. There are many ways to tune a guitar, especially now with instrumental tuning apps. Before tuning a guitar or any other instrument can be accomplished, you must match each chord or key with the note you want your instrument to imitate.
For example, on an acoustic guitar, there are 6 open strings: E-A-D-G-B-E. The idea is to get each string name to the proper note name. The result will be a guitar in perfect tune! The rest is left up to the musician to play the perfect melody.
I correlate the idea of fine-tuning an instrument to fine-tuning our mouths; our choice of words and how one might sound when he or she is talking. A negative form of speech is equal to an ill-tuned instrument, and a positive form of speech is equal to a tuned instrument.
Is it possible that speech can reflect perfect pitch?
In the letter to the Ephesians, the apostle Paul said in 4:29, “Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear” (ESV). So, the speaker and the listener are both blessed by mellifluous tones. If notes are played in harmony, we can enjoy the symphonious melody!
So how can people tune-up their mouths?
In the gospel of Matthew, 7:24, it is written, “Therefore everyone who hears these words of mine and puts them into practice is like a wise man who built his house on the rock” (NIV). Now that’s a solid idea!
Whose words is Matthew talking about? God’s words! In order to emulate them, one must be willing and ready to study His word and become familiar to how it sounds and listen. And then, most importantly, practice!
When I played my guitar, practice was most essential for my progress. I would play one piece repeatedly until it was flawless; however, when it came time for me to speak, my mouth was not nearly as fine-tuned as my guitar. That would take a lot more practice on my part. In fact, when I was a teenager, my mom would say to me, “Watch your tone with me, young lady! That language you choose is very unattractive yet you sing beautifully. It just doesn’t make any sense. You should talk like you sing!”
Well, she was right! I spoke off-key, and my tone of voice was not in alignment with harmony!
In 2 Corinthians 6:15, the apostle Paul wrote, “What harmony is there between Christ and Belial?” (NIV)
Eventually, when my mouth got me into enough trouble, I had to make some radical changes! It was time for me to get in tune with God’s language, the language of Love. I knew that Love would not sound like an out-of-tune instrument.
One of the first ideas I worked with was in Jeremiah 1:9, “Then the Lord put out his hand and touched my mouth. And the Lord said to me, ‘Behold, I have put my words in your mouth’” (ESV). In Proverbs 10:31,“The mouth of the righteous brings forth wisdom, but the perverse tongue will be cut off” (ESV).
In wanting to keep my tongue (well yeah!) as well as sounding harmonious, I turned my ears to God’s mouth and listened. I began unifying His words and my thoughts. Then, I learned to appreciate their eloquence. With more and more practice (and still practicing!) of tuning my speech to His words, my tone of voice changed, and I soon found that my speech sounded like tones of Love!
Sadly, with the language of today, disharmony and adverse language have become the norm. Unfortunately, abhorrent language appears on TV shows and radio talk shows, and in everyday common language.
I doubt that anyone who has tickets to a concert, or any musical event for that matter, would be satisfied if the musicians’ instruments were out of tune and the singers were off-key. So then why do we accept disharmony in speech? And how does that contribute to elevating thought and uplifting humanity?
It couldn’t! It doesn’t! Unmelodious language leads to less rectification.
If we chose to fine-tune our speech to reflect and imitate Love, there would be more harmony added to the world. Then, people would have a ring of truth to whatever they say!
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NIV-The Holy Bible, New International Version. Nashville: HarperCollins, 2011. Online.
Have you ever noticed anyone pacing while conversing on his or her cell phone?
I was recently at my favorite café, enjoying my decaf latte. The man next to me paced while conversing on his cell phone.
When his conversation ended, he went back to his seat, read the morning newspaper, and sipped his coffee until his phone rang again. He answered the call, got up, and began pacing once again.
Memorial Day, or what was once known as Decoration Day, is a time to demonstrate gratitude for the ones who fell in battle while serving the United States of America.
Originating from the Civil War, Decoration Day was based upon the idea that people would honor fallen soldiers by decorating their graves with flowers.
General John Logan, who was the national commander of the Grand Army of the Republic, officially proclaimed May 5, 1868, Decoration Day.
The Day of the Resurrected Christ
In the gospel of Luke, it is written in Chapter 9: 23-24, “Then he told all of them, ‘If anyone wants to come with me, he must deny himself, pick up his cross every day, and follow me continuously, because whoever wants to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for my sake will save it’” (ISV).1
Easter is a time when Christians celebrate the resurrected Christ. And though bunnies are very cute, that is not what Easter is all about. In fact, is Easter even about Jesus?
I used to believe that food was my source of comfort and joy. That was until I found myself addicted to food and then it manifested into bulimia.
Bulimia is characterized by overeating, bouts of binging and purging. It preoccupies thought and distorts one’s self-image into a grave concept. Bulimia is a very serious mental health disorder that requires a drastic change in thought in order to manage it and heal it.